Advice On How To Get Over Someone Who Never Felt The Same Way?
A lot of questions on this. This question acted like an alarm clock that loudly rang to wake me up from my permanent daze.
First of all, sending you all my biggest hug and prayers! healing and moving on from unreciprocated love is difficult but its not impossible.
1. You gotta want to move on. Knowing you have to, and want to move on, you'll help yourself heal no matter how difficult it gets.
2. Take it a day at a time. If its to difficult, take it an hour at a tine. Fill your time with good companions and good reminders. Night are also better when you've filled your days with khair and goodness.
3. Prayers is your biggest weapon. Pray for strength, pray for love, pray for anything and everything.
(The tip: if you like a particular characteristic from that person, ask Allah to send you people who have similar or better characteristics. Wait and see how Allah will surprise you).
4. Healing isn't linear. It's okay if memories suddenly come gushing in - take a deep breath, ask Allah for help and trudge on. Even if you move 0,0000001% forward, that's still progress.
5. Know that this will all pass. I promise. It's just a chapter in your very wonderful life story. You'll even laugh about its someday. Just you wait and see.
Give your own closure.
Don't wait around it.
Dear you,
Thank you for trying your best today.
Thank you for being your own friend today.
Thank you for forgiving today.
Thank you for choosing gratitude today.
Thank you for speaking to HIM today.
Thank you for doing the heartwok today.
Most of all, thank you for choosing you today.
Love and prayer always,
Sena.
Tasikmalaya, 4 July 2021
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